Bila Saye Rindu Awak. *winks*

Saye teringat topi Krismas merah yang awak belikan untuk saye,
tapi bila awak rase awak kacak pakai topi tu,
terus pakai tanak kasi saye pakai dah haa...=)

Ape la agaknye cerita Chubby Charm kan?
Mase awak bagi dia kat saye dulu, kecik comel je haa..
Sekarang mungkin dia dah gemok dan semakin pemalas. =D

Canie lah saye bila saye rindukan awak..
Percaye tak? Percaye tak? hee~



Dan tak pernah sehari pun berlalu tanpa saye ternanti-nanti,
Bila agaknya awak akan pulang,
Supaya saye tak lagi menyanyi lagu sepi,
Sebab bila ade awak, saye sentiasa riang. =D

p/s: Come home soon? Please? Rindu awak banyak banyak sangat ! Janji tak bohong. ^_^

Here's A Little Heart For You. =)

"Don't Let Me Fall.."

Underneath the moon,
Underneath the stars
Heres a little heart for you
Up above the world,
Up above it all
Heres a hand to hold on to.

But if I should break,
If I should fall away
What am I to do?
I need someone to take,
A little of the weight
Or I'll fall through.

You're just the one
That I've been waiting for
I'll give you
All that I have
To give and more
But don't let me fall.

Take a little time,
Walk a little line
Got the balance right
Give a little love,
Gimme just enough
So that I can hang on tight.

We will be alright,
I'll be by your side
I wont let you down
But I gotta know,
No matter how things go
That you will be alright.

You're just the one
That I've been waiting for
I'll give you all
That I have
To give and more
But don't let me fall.

Underneath the moon,
Underneath the stars
Heres a little heart for you
Up above the world,
Up above it all
Heres a hand to hold on to.

Your just the one
That I've been waiting for
I'll give you
All that I have
To give and more
But don't let me fall.

You'll be the one
That I'll love forever more
I'll be here holding you
High above it all
But don't let me fall.

I love you hun ! =D *hugs*

Women Unveiled: Bits and Pieces.

Though women are extraordinarily motivating for us (and you do know why), sometimes it is so hard to communicate with them... Well, that's resolved. This article is one of the best pieces of advice for single men ever. It is about understanding women. Priceless material, gentlemen...

Should there be a last thing to mention about women and their worlds is that women need to communicate often to feel connected. This means talking, looking, touching, going, returning... but essentially talking. You may need to consider if you are a good listener these days. That can really help you.

Just be careful not to make the same mistake every other man on earth makes. Ironic as it will sound, women talk just to be heard, not for you to solve whatever problem she is discussing. I repeat. Women do not want you to fix things, they want you to listen, be sympathetic and tell them about a time when you felt the exact same way. When men listen to a problem, they immediately think on doing something to solve it. Do not do that, just listen without offering advice or, if you feel you must do something, ask: "Is this one of those times when you want me to listen and not give you advice, or can I say something?" If you do it this way, she will see you really understand her and she is going to appreciate it (and you) a lot.

What a girl wants?? First and foremost, security. Security means three things for a woman: physical security, emotional security (a. k. a. faithfulness) and temporal (and not temporary) security (a. k. a. stability). Among these, the most important feature they want in a man is stability. Even if it is quite known that women usually like more "Mr. Jerk" than "Mr. Nice" because he finds him more manly, at the end, single women usually marry a "Mr. Nice" because she finds him more stable. And because...

They are more chivalrous, intimate, and tender. One of the best ways in which a single woman can ensure herself that the man who is giving her security now will not become her main aggressor later (Believe it or not, their brains are really this weird) is to see how men behave in their daily life. Even when women can easily live and survive without us (they can open the doors and also carry heavy things without our help), a chivalrous offering will decidedly work in the man's favour... Just don't exaggerate your chivalrousness because...

If you exaggerate it you will be dropped. Women like to trust in the fact their men will be able to provide her some security from outer aggressions as well. That is to say, if he looks weak to her, he will probably look weak for other men and, therefore, it is more convenient for her to look somewhere else. Women will find attractive those men who behave manfully before the world but tenderly with them, even if he's not the most stunning man in the world. His manliness will show her how protective he can be; his tenderness, how supporting he can be if she needs him. A woman's brain is like that.

Before the final 'I do', women usually test men. They want to see if he is really manful, so, first and above all, she will try to DOMINATE him. Yes! As you just read it! It is on purpose! Here is where many men make the BIG MISTAKE of trying to please her all the time, giving her all what she asks for. Mistake? Yes. She's actually expecting that you will not allow her to dominate you. Learn how to handle that situation without being neither rude nor treating her unchivalrously, and as a last tip, do not think you are living all the time under this test. There is no need to be defensive either.

Other tests women do? One of the women I interviewed confessed me she carried out three tests on her man before actually getting married with him: She made him drink until he could drink no more, to see if he got aggressive with her when he was intoxicated. She also spent a whole afternoon teasing, pestering, annoying, bothering, and humiliating him as she wanted to find out if he was capable of hitting or insulting her when he was really angry or whether he was resentful. The third one was going to a dangerous neighborhood, to see if he was afraid of being held-up or assaulted, or to see if he would abandon her in a dangerous situation.

Why? Because when a woman ultimately becomes a mother (something almost women want to become sooner or later), she knows she will be in a very vulnerable situation. Some women will be always ready to sacrifice her job, career, friends and other things just to be able to look after her children, she wants to make sure her man will not leave her on her own when she most needs to be supported.

Instinct? Maybe, but it is the way they are... Help her feel safe in all these ways and she will be yours as long as you want.

Conclusions

• Every woman is different, so there are not exact rules to understand them.
• Women prefer a sort of "tender jerk" for man: someone romantic, chivalrous, sweet, affectionate, comforting... but at the same time, someone who shows himself masculine, strong, powerful and aggressive, especially before the rest of the world.
• Some women will test you, some will not, so get ready for tests and not to give in your position of man before any woman.
• Show yourself manly and they will like you easier.
• As society evolves, women become more independent, but intimately they have not changed much. Just try to avoid stereotypes and get to know the woman you really have in front of you.

Good luck! *winks*

Source: unknown author, http://www.singles-advice.com/how-to-understand-women.htm.

Better Understanding of Men

Do you understand men? Read this interesting article on how to understand men better. *winks*

Over the years, women have had many experiences in trying to understand men. In your quest to understanding men, you will discover that they usually have vague ideas on what they really want or need from a woman. They say one thing and seem to do another. They send mixed messages that often leave you feeling confused and bewildered. Perhaps if women were to start thinking like men, it would make this whole man and woman relationship a whole lot easier. So the next time your man does something that irritates you, try putting yourself in his shoes.

Women have a tendency to lament about problems because they want their problems to be acknowledged, while men complain about problems because they are asking for solutions. These are just a few concepts from the book ‘Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus.’ Obviously there are differences between women and men's viewpoints and how they react under stress. Rarely do men think about writing us sweet little love letters or cards or sending us flowers. When you get frustrated with your man about his lack of romanticism, remember that men do not always think like this. They may wonder why their sex lives are not so good but most seem to be lacking the romance gene. The reason for their apparent lack of attention through small gestures is that their idea of "romantic" is different than ours. Share with your guy that you would love to have flowers sent to you at work. Do not sweat it if he does not respond to you immediately. He probably has other things on his mind.

Does men’s lack of romance mean they have less character than women. Absolutely not. However, in an interesting relationship poll of over 500 women conducted by WomanSavers.com, over 40% of women felt that men have much less character and values now than they did five years ago, whereas only 2% believed men’s character had increased.

Does your man seem disinterested when you are trying to talk to him about something vital to you? Do you feel that you two have a problem and you wish to discuss about it? Does your man seem less than excited when you insist you both must talk about the issue right there and then? Men, more often than not, wish to keep their problems to themselves and think about them for a while. It does not mean your man is incapable of communicating with you, it just means that he would rather process the situation before saying anything. More often than not, a man will need to come up with something concrete to say or a specific solution to a problem, rather than just discussing several different options with you.

Though women think about our problems out loud and wish to discuss or talk about every aspect of an issue, does not mean men have to do the same. When it comes to communicating, give your man some space. When he is ready to talk to you about an issue, permit him to approach you. Remind yourself that you are two different creatures and when it comes down to it, men and women have a very different style of communication. Do not be offended when you do not get exactly the response you would expect or desire. Men are not easy to figure out.

The next time you are upset with your guy, try to think about it the way he would. Simply to acknowledge that men think in different ways would lift off a heavy burden from your shoulders. The next time he reacts differently to what you would expect, do not sweat the small stuff. It doesn’t mean that he didn’t care. He just thinks differently than the way you do.

Source: Stephany Alexander, http://www.authorsden.com/visit/viewArticle.asp?id=28886.

How To Understand Men

Many women have never really understood men, and this can affect their relationships with them. Here are some things you'll need to know. Remember that the following are generalizations and, just as women are different, so are men. Find the individual within. =)

1. Be ready for sloppy finances. Some men forget to pay bills, have money stashed away and don’t mind spending a lot of money on gadgets. They will make a great impression on a woman about their finances early in the relationship, only for her to find out later that the money isn’t what it seems. Other men are very organized and responsible with their finances. The key is to figure out which type of man is your man.
2. Prepare yourself for a double standard when it comes to looks. Some men don’t care too much about their pot bellies; yet they will criticize a woman for being overweight.
3. Keep it real. Some guys aren't big on using tons of personal products. Some are. Deodorant? Yes! Hair Stuff? Maybe. They mostly believe natural is the best, and they love it when girls act the same. Sure, you look great when you take time to put on a little lip gloss or a touch of mascara, but you've got to know when to stop. A woman whose face is covered in sparkles and hair so stiff a tornado couldn't budge it just isn't pretty to most men.
4. Let him enjoy his hobbies, like sports. If you want to rub him the wrong way real fast, talk to him while a game is on or tie up his day shopping when the game is about to start and you may find yourself without a man.
5. Try talking about your family issues, money woes and boss on the job. If your man truly cares about you, he will offer his opinion on what you should do. It’s not that you want his advice, it’s just that he is programmed to problem solve and he will do just that. If you don’t want his problem solving, warn him before you tell the story that you don’t need his advice.
6. Get physical. Most men have this desire to be playfully physical with you, each other or by themselves. For example, shadow boxing, wrestling, shoving, weight lifting, running or simply clicking the remote. Some men will enjoy making you a part of their playfulness for instance, pulling hair, slapping a butt, streaking, etc.
7. Accept his other female friends and acquaintances. Many men do a lot of talking with at least one female whether in the family or someone on the job. This is the person who knows just about everything about you. When he bought jewelry, clothes or some other gift for you, the woman on the job or the female relative more than likely was the one he consulted with before he made the purchase. If it wasn’t either of those women, it was definitely the sales clerk. There are a few men out there who just won’t talk to any woman other than his wife or girlfriend about any personal issues, but those men are hard to find.
8. Watch how you dress. Sexy attire to men spells sex. If you are wearing a mini-skirt and your breasts are protruding, it is hard for a man to think about anything else. Don’t give him the wrong impression if you aren’t interested in sex.
9. Let him do the talking. Ever notice how guys don't talk a lot, especially when it comes to talking about themselves? They don't feel like it's totally necessary for everyone to know everything, like what they ate for lunch or what they dreamed about the night before. And it's likely that they don't want to know every tiny thing about you. Instead of talking about yourself all the time, try waiting until he asks a question.
10. Keep in mind that clothes aren't the most important thing in the world. Ever seen a guy burst into tears because his best friend is wearing the same shirt? Or, because he couldn't get a sweatshirt in the right shade of blue? Never! They just don't usually function that way. Don't be surprised if that have a hard time empathizing when you freak out because another woman has the same dress as you at your cousin's wedding!
11. Ask, don't assume. If a man wants to know how you're feeling, he'll usually ask. Females think they have a "sixth sense" about guys, so they read into everything: If he's quiet, it means he doesn't like you. If he looks at another girl, you're about to get dumped. If he doesn't email you back right away, its over, Right? No Way! Calm down, take a deep breath and if you still just have to know what's going on in his head, ask the dude.
12. Don't bother gossiping with him. Despite what you might think, guys don't really gossip, especially about girls. They might tell a close friend they're crushing on a chick, but guys don't usually get all chatty and spread rumors. Guys know how to keep info on the down low and you should too. If you think gossiping about people makes you look popular and cool, most guys will just think you are shallow and petty.
13. Don't smother him: leave cloning in the lab. Some fellas are super-tight with their pals, but you'll notice they always give each other enough space to be themselves. It's great to have a best friend, but its also OK to do something on your own--like joining a club different from your pals. It's good to have experience different form your friends. It makes you way more interesting. In other words, guys aren't keen on a woman that would attach herself at the hip to a friend as if they're Siamese twins.
14. Eat when you're hungry. When a guy's hungry, he says, "I'm hungry," then he eats--the end. Men typically think it's silly when girls talk about food/diets/calories all the time. It gets really old really fast. They also appreciate a gal who eats normally--that means no starving yourself, and no obsessing endlessly over the size of your thighs. Are you trying to convince him your fat? What if you succeed? So eat lunch and stop talking about it already. The worst that can happen is that you'll quit focusing on negative energy on your body image, and soon you'll be feeling more positive and confident--and guys won't think you're a wannabe stick figure.

Source: http://www.wikihow.com/Understand-Men

Semakin Pemalas, Semakin Sayang.

Bila Pergi Negara Orang...

Mesti rindu mereka2 ini kan? heee~

Benarkah Bulan di Luar Negara Lebih Terang?

p/s: taklah. tak benar. bulan di negara sendiri pun ape kurangnya. kan? cuma kita sahaja yang tak mahu pandang. =)

Just For Laughs! =D

Men are like parking spots, the good ones are taken and the free ones are handicapped.

Girls are like phones. We love to be held, talked too but if you press the wrong button you'll be disconnected!

The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.

What are the three words guaranteed to humiliate men everywhere?
'Hold my purse.'

Men are like bank accounts.
Without a lot of money they don't generate a lot of interest.

You tried your best and you failed miserably. The lesson is 'never try'. -Homer Simpson -

If your wife wants to learn to drive, don't stand in her way.

A computer once beat me at chess, but it was no match for me at kick boxing.

Worst excuse for not turning in homework: I couldn't find anyone to copy it from.

How Many Roads Must A Man Walk Down Before He Admits Hes lost?

"Marriage is give and take. You'd better give it to her or she'll take it anyway." - Joey Adams -

If there is a "WILL", there are 500 relatives.

Money doesn't make you happy. I now have $50 million but I was just as happy when I had $48 million.

I think animal testing is a terrible idea; they get all nervous and give the wrong answers.

Source:http://www.coolfunnyquotes.com/funnyquotes9.shtml

Words Men Use And What It Actually Means. *winks*

IT'S A GUY THING

• There is no rational pattern connected with it and you [woman] will have no chance at all of making sense of it.

CAN I HELP WITH DINNER?

• This usually means what is taking you so long to make dinner…no I really do not want to help.

"UH HUH", OR "SURE HONEY", OR "YES DEAR"

• This is a conditional response and means nothing. They are probably blanking out what you are saying – happens during sports on T.V.

IT WOULD TAKE TOO LONG TO EXPLAIN

• This actually means they [men] have no idea how it works or how to fix something.

TAKE A BREAK HONEY, YOU ARE WORKING TOO HARD

• This means that whatever she is doing he can not hear the game on T.V. [ie. Vacuuming]

THAT'S INTERESTING DEAR

• This means are you still talking about that same thing. I’m really not interested.

YOU KNOW HOW BAD MY MEMORY IS

• Means – I remember everything that interests me but I forgot your birthday or our anniversary.

OH, DON'T FUSS, I JUST CUT MYESELF. IT'S NO BIG DEAL

• Really means – I have severed a limb and may bleed to death, but I am not hurt. I need to go to the hospital for stitches, but I am a man. OR I need you to help me now before I bleed to death before your eyes.

HEY, I HAVE GOT MY REASONS FOR WHAT I AM DOING

• Really means – I will think of a reason really soon and then I will tell you.

I CAN'T FIND IT

• I am clueless – nothing just fell into my open arms when I was standing there.

WHAT DID I DO THIS TIME?

• Really means – what did you catch me doing now that I should not be doing?

I HEARD YOU

• Means, I have not the foggiest idea what you are talking about or what you just said and I am having trouble faking it.

YOU KNOW I COULD NEVER LOVE ANYONE ELSE

• Translated means - I am used to how you yell at me and I know it could be worse with someone else.

YOU LOOK TERRIFIC

• Means – please do not try on another outfit, we have to go.

I AM NOT LOST. I KNOW EXACTLY WHERE WE ARE

• Translated means – No one will ever see us again and I am too proud to ask for directions.

WE SHARE THE HOUSEWORK

• Translated means – I make the mess and she cleans them up.

Here's more! *grins*

1. "I'll do it in five minutes"- I will never do it and I hope you'll forget or do it yourself.

2. "I promise it will be fun"- It will be fun, for me.

3. "I'll be back at 11 o'clock"- I will be back at 2 AM and blame traffic.

4. "We didn't do much at work today"- We had a wild party that I don't want you to know about.

5. "You're the boss" (said in a bitter, frustrated, or evil tone)- I'm planning to overthrow you soon.

Source: http://www.angelfire.com/ultra2/translator/men.html
http://antifraudintl.org/showthread.php?t=2485